In this world of mind and matter we are crazy to achieve something in order to be someone or become someone better than before or others. With awareness of the empty nature of mind and matter I rather enjoy the beautiful nothingness in each moment as no one.
Hence the identification with the Self does not lead to any good. It leads away from all the good.
All the labels we put on ourself and others are mere phantasies and distractions.
Indeed, we are all selfless brothers and sisters beyond form.